How to get charisma and attract women. Confidence and attractiveness.

When you walk into a party, are you the one that everybody turns their head to check out? When you are walking down the street, do people, stop in their tracks, and slowly turn to see who that compellingly charismatic person was (you) that passed them by? When you are in group that is throwing around mindless chatter, and you start to open your mouth, do all the people immediately stop and turn to listen to your honeyed words of wisdom?

If you haven't been able to discover yet what it is that can easily make this person you, don't worry. Most people haven't. But because you are reading this now, you are about to discover a secret that is simple to understand, and easy to apply. It does take a little bit of practice. But when you do start to practice this on a regular basis, you will build up a sense of self confidence that will radiate so powerfully that you will naturally and unbelievably draw people towards you. Not only will you be turning heads at parties and other social gatherings, but you will have such a positive outlook on life in general, you'll wonder why you didn't discover this earlier.

I've written about this extensively on my blog. If you'd like, you can easily read several or a few articles at your convenience. What I'm talking about here is charisma. Charisma is simply the ability to make somebody feel a little bit better because of an interaction with you. And you don't even have to talk to them. A smile works just as well. All you need to practice doing is quiet your mind, and pay attention to the other person. Watch their face, listen to the tone of their voice, listen to words that they emphasize a little bit more than other words. Because you do this, they will realize that you are not a selfish "me first" person that they might otherwise encounter. If you read some of my other articles on my blog under the appropriate categories, I talk about many other techniques to help you do this.

And the important key is to start wherever your are comfortable. If holding eye contact is too much, that's ok. Just say "hi" really quickly without really looking at them. When you discover that most people are generally friendly and will respond to you in kind, you will really understand how easy this is. Once you can hold eye contact, move up to a smile while holding eye contact. Next are general compliments, whatever nice things you feel like throwing out. The fantastic thing about this is when you start doing this on a regular basis, you will develop a charismatic glow that will draw people to you like you've never thought possible.

The sooner you start to do this, the sooner you will realize the ultimate secret about developing charisma: People everywhere are all waiting for somebody else to make the first move, to start the conversation, to begin the interaction. Let that person be YOU.